Let Your Sexual Ninja Come Out and Play…

Hope everyone has a fun and safe Halloween weekend!

Midori making a ninja look sexy in latex

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    National Kink Month Tip #25: Enjoy Your Sex!

    And save now on kinky sex toys to make sex more fun!

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      Pleasure & Pain – Nipple Clamps On Sale

      Test your own limits of pain and pleasure – save on nipple clamps (including these classic Japanese Clover Clamps) and more this week only in our National Kink Month Sale!

      It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure. By Marquis de Sade

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        Bedside Manners for Play Doctors & Naughty Nurses: Speculums for Medical Fetish Roleplay

        Throughout National Kink Month, we’re having weekly sales on Stockroom.com: this week we’re featuring some of our favorite medical sex toys and nipple clamps and pumps. All month long we’ll be showcasing tricks, tips and lessons for using the fetish toys and BDSM gear on sale that week.

        Whether you have a medical fetish year round or you’re just looking to give your tricks a special treat this Halloween in your naughty nurse or sexy surgeon costume, playing doctor is, for many people, one of their earliest and strongest sexual fantasies.

        Maybe it’s the uniforms, or the exciting humiliation of stripping nude for a stranger who probes you with intimate instruments, but medical inspired sex toys give us an extra special thrill because they’re so evocative. Medical roleplay is playing doctor for grownups, and it’s a great way to start experimenting if you’re new to erotic roleplaying — dreaming up activities and dialogue is easy, since everybody’s familiar with the script. And more importantly, there are countless reasons to get naked – and even more to start probing your patient’s most private parts!

        Speculums are one of the first things you should add to your sensual doctor’s bag, because they’re a total turn on for both partners in a medical role playing scene. The patient enjoys being on display and fully exposed, while the doctor or nurse gets off on seeing the patient’s ass or pussy gaping open and so completely available. Though they may seem exotic, they’re simple to use with a little practice – just follow the steps outlined below.

        How to Choose a Speculum

        Most speculums are designed specifically for either anal or vaginal insertion, though some fetishists love to use the broader vaginal tools anally. Vaginal speculums have two blades, or bills, that are fairly broad and flat; anal speculums have either two or three blades, and tend to have more rounded blades and a much smaller diameter when shut.

        Both anal and vaginal specula come in a variety of styles that differ according to blade shape and size. Many experienced medical role players like the Collins vaginal speculum for its broad blades, because the width is more comfortable for the patient and offers the “doctor” a better view. If the Collins seems a little big, these vaginal speculums in stainless steel have a similar shape but run smaller and narrower. Anal speculums have blades that are narrower and more rounded than vaginal-use models. The two most popular styles are the Sims, which has two blades, and the Mathieu, which has three.

        For your health and safety, never share speculums between partners, and never use the same toy both anally and vaginally. These inexpensive plastic speculums, which can be disposed of after each use, are an excellent choice if you need to buy multiples.

        Steve Cruz with anal speculum, playing it safe with latex exam gloves

        How to Use an Anal or Vaginal Speculum

        1. Use clean toys: wash your speculum with antibacterial soap in warm water and let it air dry completely before using it.
        2. Clean yourself, too: Keep things more sanitary and pleasant by douching before using an anal speculum. An erotic enema beforehand is the perfect way to get prepped as part of your medical scenario – especially if you use a classic red enema bag or a 19th century-style Clyster Enema Syringe. If you use a bag, try replacing the standard nozzle with this Inflatable Enema Butt Plug to help your partner relax and open up before you play.
        3. Learn how to operate your device. Before using it on another person, practice opening and closing it, and locking it into position.
        4. Warm the speculum by running warm water over it before you play. This will keep your patient comfortable and prevent awkward clenching when you insert the toy. Make sure it’s not too hot: test it against your own skin before inserting.
        5. Position the patient: your patient should be lying on their back, legs spread, with their cheeks angled up slightly – putting a flat pillow under their butt or even having them place their hands under their tailbone creates the proper angle.
        6. Use lube: lubricate both the leading edge of the speculum blades as well as your partner’s vaginal or anal opening before insertion. Stay true to your medical scene and use SurgiLube, a hospital favorite.
        7. Make sure the speculum is in the proper starting position: for a vaginal speculum, insert the toy with the blades completely closed. With an anal speculum, so people prefer inserting the toy with blades slightly open, to help prevent pinching.
        8. Relax the patient. Instruct them to take a couple deep breaths. Inserting a lubed finger first and pressing downward can help the patient relax, too.
        9. Insert the toy slowly. Make sure to follow the natural slope of things inside your patient’s body. With vaginal specula especially, when a patient is on their back, the toy should be angling downward when its inserted nearly 45 degrees.
        10. Open the blades only after the speculum is fully inserted. Open blades slowly; once you achieve the spread you want to see, lock the blades in position.
        11. Close blades before removal. Vaginal speculums should be closed fully; anal speculums can be pulled out with the blades open a fraction to avoid pinching.
        12. Wash your speculum after use with antibacterial soap in warm water; let air dry before storing.

        Fun Tips

        Once your patient is spread and ready, use a flashlight to ensure you get the best possible view. Or try using a hand mirror to show your patient how good they look…you can even make them watch everything in the mirror as you administer their “treatments!” Go for a deeper view inside – insert this Vibrating Pleasure Periscope and look in the mirrored view box as the inserted tip lights up through the clear plastic top, letting you see deep inside your partner. Spice up your play by turning on the vibrator switch!

        Save on speculums and more medical sex toys on sale this week as part of Stockroom’s National Kink Month Sale!

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          My First Ball Gag

          It changed my entire relationship with sex.

          It may sound outlandish, but it’s true. I had plenty of kink inspired thoughts and play, but a gag? It had never even entered my sexual imagination. Until one day he sent me a text that simply read, “Buy a gag.” He gave me no other instructions.

          I poured over this very website and explored the possibilities. Ball gags, bit gags, ring gags… where to start?

          I remember a conversation with a friend, she told me she bought a cheap gag in a sex shop and the ball was made of some kind of plastic that smelled horrible and tasted worse. This is why I came to Stockroom, I could trust that they knew more about quality kink products than I did.

          Many of the gags come in various sizes, I decided something smaller would be easier for me to wear, and because he gave me no instructions, I took the easy way out! Finally, I picked leather over rubber straps as I am attracted to the scent and knew I would wear this on my face. I choose a simple black leather ball gag.

          KinkLab's Pink Rubber Ball Gag is perfect for classic bondage scenes

          I emailed him when the package arrived. He instructed me to carry my new gag, still sealed in the package, in my purse. And I did. For weeks. It went with me everywhere, just as he instructed. If we met for drinks he would ask me if I had it with me, but for weeks he did not ask to see it or use it. But I knew he might pop up at any time and ask for it. I did not want to disappoint him.

          More time passed. Finally I went to him and asked, “When will we use this gag?”

          He had done it. He had embedded the object deeply into my imagination. Now I was asking for it. That’s what he was waiting for.

          The first time he buckled it onto me, it felt like a gift. It was more comfortable than I imagined. I was enamored with the sound of the buckle. He spun me around and looked into my eyes and there was this electricity. Here I was deprived of my voice but other expressions took its place. Eye contact, body language, and uncontrollably, saliva began to pool in my mouth and drop from my lips in long strings. My lust, it was undeniable.

          So how did my ball gag change my relationship with sex? From that day on I have learned to keep my mind open. I feel like there must be a million other things that have not reached my sexual imagination but may light me up in new ways. I don’t need to have a fetish for the object itself, but stay open to the experience it may create with another.

          Throughout National Kink Month, we’re having weekly sales on Stockroom.com: this week we’re featuring some of our favorite bondage restraints and gear. All month long we’ll be showcasing tricks, tips and lessons for using the fetish toys and BDSM gear on sale that week.

           

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            It’s National Kink Month – What Turns You On?

            Justine Joli's luscious pair of red lips stretched helplessly around a demanding gag...

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              Beginner’s Guide to Bondage Tape

              Throughout National Kink Month, we’re having weekly sales on Stockroom.com: this week we’re featuring some of our favorite bondage restraints and gear. All month long we’ll be showcasing tricks, tips and lessons for using the fetish toys and BDSM gear on sale that week.

              The popular Twilight-inspired trilogy Fifty Shades of Grey has made many people curious to explore BDSM who have never tried fetish play before. We’ve been loving kinky sex for nearly 25 years here at The Stockroom, so it’s exciting to see others discover how much fun it can be, and great to see questions about BDSM come up in mainstream forums.

              When it comes to translating kinky fantasies into reality, though, fetish sex toys and gear can have a learning curve.

              If you’ve never used rope, cuffs, or other bondage restraints, one of the easiest, most foolproof ways to learn how to tie someone up is to start with Bondage Tape. Sexy and shiny, Bondage Tape is available in black, red, or bubblegum pink, and comes in 2″ wide rolls that are nearly 5 ½ feet long. The tape is easy to cut to any length you want, though we suggest getting a few rolls at a time so you have plenty to play with.

              Bondage tape in red, black and pink

              Sexy, shiny, self-adhesive PVC Bondage Tape

              Though it’s called “tape,” it isn’t adhesive; it only sticks to itself, because the stretchy hypoallergenic PVC material has an electrostatic cling. This gives it a strong bond that holds firm without knots or ties – it just needs to be overlapped and pressed together to be secured. And because bondage tape won’t stick to skin or hair, you can even use it to make a quick but effective blindfold (just don’t pull it too tight so it presses too hard on the eyes!) It’s also reusable: just unwrap it and straighten it back out onto the roll when you’re done playing, and it will cling over and over again.

              Bondage Tape is so inexpensive, though, that most people simply cut it off when they’re ready to set their partner free or change positions – something that makes it an excellent low risk choice for someone experimenting with bondage for the first time.

              Even if you prefer to unwrap your tape so you can reuse it, bondage scissors are something you should always have on hand when you’re using bondage tape or rope. These safety shears have blunt, angled blades, so they’ll cut through layers of tape quickly without cutting the skin underneath. No matter how experienced you are with these kinds of restraints, it’s essential to have this emergency quick-release tool on hand.

              Bondage Safety Curb Tipped Surgeon's Scissors

              Bondage tape can re-used again and again, but we recommend keeping some curb-tipped scissors on hand for emergency quick release.

              Tips for Using Bondage Tape

              These pointers will help you use Bondage Tape correctly and safely, so you get the most out of it:

              • Since Bondage Tape only clings to itself, it works best if you wrap it round a few times in overlapping rows before pressing the ends down to secure them.
              • Make sure the tape doesn’t bite into the flesh when wrapping; keep it close to the skin but not tight.
              • Always keep the tape flat, like a ribbon; don’t let the Bondage Tape get twisted, or it will turn into a thin cord that won’t stick to anything and cuts into skin.
              • Always check to make sure that bound body parts retain good circulation. Remove tape immediately if limbs are cold to the touch or look bluish.
              • Don’t leave your bound partner in any one position for too long at a time, to avoid causing injury or circulation problems.
              • Never use Bondage Tape for suspension or other weight-bearing forms of bondage.
              • Avoid the risk of suffocation: never put Bondage Tape over the mouth or nose, and always make sure your partner can breathe comfortably, as a bound person may not be able to adjust their position unaided.
              • Always keep a pair of safety scissors on hand in case tape needs to be cut off quickly.
              • If you plan on reusing your Bondage Tape, flatten it out after use, then rewind it onto the spool to store.

              Bondage Tips & Fun Roleplay Ideas

              Bondage Tape is so versatile and easy to use that it lends itself to dozens of bondage positions and erotic roleplay scenarios. Here are a few of our favorites:

              • Bondage Tape is great to use with furniture. Keep your partner bent over by strapping their arms to the arms of a chair, or seat them in the chair and bind their arms and legs that way.
              • Tape your partner’s thighs together before getting behind them doggie-style.
              • Wrap Bondage Tape around your partner’s head and over their eyes a few times to create a blindfold. You can wrap right over their hair, since the tape won’t stick to anything but itself – just don’t wrap too hard so that it puts pressure on the eyes, and be careful to not give your partner a free haircut if you cut the tape off afterwards!
              • Make a tube top or mini skirt out of rows of wrapped tape – do it with the tape still on the roll to create nice, even rows. Let your partner cut you out of your outfit later with your bondage scissors.
              • Since bondage scissors are based on the shears medical personnel use to cut bandages or even clothing away from patients, you can even use them to cut your partner out of regular clothing. Imagine staging an erotic “abduction” of your partner; restraining them with bondage tape; then cutting them out of both their bonds and their clothing to have your way with them! Of course, like any other roleplay, this “kidnapping” scene should be consensual, and you should discuss in advance what you both feel comfortable with. Make sure to also talk about wardrobe, too, so you don’t wind up cutting up your partner’s favorite outfit!
              • Tease your partner once they’re tied up…or try overindulging and overstimulating them with forced orgasms, and using a vibrating wand massager, hard cock, fingers, or oral to make them cum again and again.

              Bondage Tape is on sale this week as part of Stockoom’s National Kink Month Sale!

              For more inspiration and extra stimulation, here are a few pictures demonstrating bondage tape in action… Enjoy!

              Aria Giovanni bound in red bondage tape

              Red bondage tape creates sexy fetish wear for Aria Giovanni... and also keeps her bound to a pole!

              T.J. Cummings bound in black bondage tape

              T.J. Cummings is left immobile wrapped in bondage tape.

              Ashley Fires bound in pink bondage tape

              Ashley Fires' bent over with wrists bound with pink bondage tape, leaving her bottom exposed.

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                Bondage Restraints! New Savings for National Kink Month Sale

                Save on Bondage Restraints – newly featured products during our National Kink Month Sale!

                Buckle up – it’s gonna be a wild night!

                It's only kinky the first time.

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                  7 Sexy Halloween Costumes: Kinky Twists on Classic Favorites

                  Halloween is a fantastic time of year full of trickery, childlike excitement, and shoving fistfuls of candy in your mouth in between bouts of consuming every possible product on the market with the words “pumpkin spice” on the label.

                  Halloween is also the time of year when you get to don your scariest, sexiest, most “on the streets” daring outfits, and get into mischief in the darkness of night. But more importantly, WHAT TO WEAR!?

                  We’re here to help with some handy suggestions of costumes to get you from the house parties to after-parties when it’s time to do some moaning and groaning of your own! (Added bonus, most of these feature products discounted in our Halloween Sale.)

                  • Miss Diagnosis
                  You know what’s missing from most mental health facilities? A bodacious set of ta-tas.
                  The nurse costume is a classic favorite and frankly, a costume many people look forward to every year. The idea of some delicious vixen taking care of our every need is quite a delight and that cold medical steel feels oh, so good against warm skin.

                  Latex Garter Dress

                  Latex Garter Dress

                  Fishnet Stockings

                  Latex Exam Gloves

                  Clyster Syringe

                  Nurse Handbag

                  • In The Doghouse
                  Someone’s been a naughty puppy. Messes on the floor. Chewed up shoes. Late newspapers. Better bring that pooch in line or it’s back to the pound. We also sell deluxe puppy kennel cages. Hint, hint, Fido. Hint, hint.

                  Dog Hood

                  Dog Hood

                  Puppy Fist Mitts

                  Puppy Fist Mitts

                   Doggie Bone Gag

                  Doggie Bone Gag

                   Chain Leash

                  Chain Leash

                   Leather Knee Pads

                  Leather Knee Pads

                  • Hell Horse
                  “The horsemen cometh and you shall too” This little pony went…TO HELL and came back a full-fledged Satanic Stallion. You may need a set of red LEDs or red contact lenses for the full effect, but, as with most costumes, what really sells this outfit is attitude.

                  Ponytail Anal Plug

                  Ponytail Anal Plug

                  Latex Pony Boots

                  Latex Pony Boots

                  Pony Head Bridle

                  Pony Head Bridle

                   Waist Cincher

                  Waist Cincher

                   Bust Harness

                  Bust Harness

                  • Raccoon Mario
                  Two Italian Men in a fantasy world, action and adventure AND the power of flight. You can’t really go wrong here. We’ll leave it to you to supply your own definitions for intriguing terms d’art like “Warp Whistle”, “Fire Flower” and “Dark World” Please check your state and local statutes before attempting anything you’d refer to as “The Hammer Brothers.”

                  Foxtail Anal Plug

                  Foxtail Anal Plug

                   Latex Chaps

                  Latex Chaps

                   Rubber Muir Cap

                  Rubber Muir Cap

                   Latex Suspenders

                  Latex Suspenders

                  • After-School Special
                  Much more entertaining than “Debbie Does Midterms: The Hidden Dangers of Caffeine Addiction” this delinquent disguise is just the thing to get that bad boy (or girl) to give you a ride on their Harley and more. Cut to: A montage of windswept hair through city streets set to “Nothing’s Gonna Stop Us” by Starship. Do we have to keep going? (If you’re feeling too risqué, feel free to throw on a white button-down shirt for a little extra coverage.)

                  Leather Pasties

                  Leather Pasties

                   Lolly Crop

                  Lolly Crop

                   ThighHighs w/ Bow

                  ThighHighs w/ Bow

                   Leather Mini Skirt

                  Leather Mini Skirt

                  • WAY Beyond The Thunderdome
                  “Two men enter…” sounds like a great set up to a story we’d love to be involved in. We’ll let you argue about who gets to be Master and who gets to be Blaster, unless being Tina Turner is more your thing (And whose wouldn’t it be?) For any post-Apocalyptic fantasy, you’ll need the right gear to survive and thrive in the blasted wasteland (or your bedroom. You really should clean that up.) Complete this look with your favorite pair of black boots!

                   Leather Apron

                  Leather Apron

                   Military Gas Mask

                  Military Gas Mask

                   Fuck Saw

                  Fuck Saw

                   Latex Gloves

                  Latex Gloves

                  • Abbie Normal
                  When you positively can’t keep those depraved thoughts at bay, a lock up and shake down may be just what the doctor ordered. Bite down on the towel and prepare for the shock treatment, it’s about to get rough.

                   Ankle Shackles

                  Ankle Shackles

                   Punisher Muzzle

                  Punisher Muzzle

                  Leather Straitjacket

                  Leather Straitjacket

                  And if all else fails, toss on some good old fashioned chains and padlocks and stir up some moral judgment as Jacob Marley’s ghost! *clang, drag, clang*

                  Our Halloween Sale and National Kink Month Sale run until the end of October – get creative and save!

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                    How to Use a Butt Plug

                    To kick off National Kink Month, we’re having a sale on Stockroom.com on some of our favorite rope bondage gear and how -to books, as well as select anal toys for both men and women. This week and every week through the end of October, we’re featuring tricks, tips and lessons for using the fetish toys and BDSM gear on sale that week. This week, we’re going to give our helpful hints on using a butt plug.

                    Just like opinions, everyone has an asshole…which means that ass play should be universally enjoyable for anybody, so long as they learn how to do it comfortably and safely.

                    Butt plugs can be a great way to prepare for anal sex. They’re fun to wear during intercourse for both partners, and equally fun to wear masturbating alone. (Or for someone else.) They’re also a compelling means of teasing your partner, or keeping their attention engaged during roleplay.

                    Anal Trainer Kit on Stockroom.com

                    The Anal Trainer Kit is great for beginners & anal pros.

                    Whether you’re new to using a butt plug or just want to increase your comfort and wear time with anal sex toys, these simple steps can help you have as much fun as possible:

                      1. Buy the right kind of lube.
                      Avoid wear and tear on tender tissues by using a thicker or longer-lasting personal lubricant. Silicone has good staying power and is condom-safe; cream lubes has an excellent texture, too, but make sure it isn’t oil based, or it will degrade latex condoms. Try a Lube Shooter to get lube in deep enough to smooth the way.
                      2. Choosing the right butt plug:

                      • Even if you have lots of practice, it’s best to start out easy with a smaller toy each time you play. Perfect for both beginners or to use as a warm-up, the Anal Trainer Kit is a set of 3 soft rubber butt plugs in graduated sizes.
                      • If you want to be able to move around your house – or even go out in public – wearing a butt plug, make sure to either use a butt plug harness, or buy an anal toy that’s designed to stay in securely. For men, toys like the Trailer Hitch – which combines a butt plug with a cock ring that keeps the plug in place, and adds extra sensation. Anal beads and balls are other easy-to-move-in options that work equally well for both women and men.
                      • Make sure all your butt toys are easily removable. Classic plugs have bases that keep them from slipping in too far, but other anal toys should have a string or ring to pull so they don’t get lost.
                      3. Clean up before you play:
                      Preparation makes anal sex or using a butt plug will make you less self-conscious and everything more sanitary. Wash yourself out in the shower with a douche set like the StreemMaster or Shur Shot, or use a more conveniently sized bulb style anal douche. Make sure to lubricate the nozzle before you use it, and wash your douche set thoroughly after each use with antibacterial soap and warm water.
                      4. Make sure to relax:
                      When you’re first putting in a butt plug or other anal toy, being relaxed enough can be just as important to your comfort as using the right lube. One simple way to relax your muscles sufficiently is to take a deep breath when your toy is poised in place; then push the butt plug in slowly as you breathe outward. If you need to, stop to inhale; then start pushing again as you exhale a second time. If you feel pain or cramping, slow down! If the pain doesn’t ease immediately, it can help to remove the toy entirely; take another deep breath; then reinsert the plug as you breathe out again.
                      5. Hygiene and cleaning:
                      Always wash anal toys thoroughly with antibacterial soap and warm water when you’re through playing, and let them air dry completely before storing. To prevent infection, never share unsanitized toys between partners, or move a toy from the ass to the vagina.
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