Sunny Megatron Reviews the James Deen Realistic Cock

After interviewing James Deen a few months ago about his new Doc Johnson toy line, I couldn’t stop wondering what the Deen Peen really felt like. I was thrilled when presented with the opportunity to give it a whirl. For quick facts, check out my written review below. If you want even more dirty details, watch my accompanying video review.

Design and Use
This realistic cock is a full 9 inches of authentic James Deen. The detail is impeccable. It has life-like veins, ridges, and even one ball that hangs slightly lower than the other. I do watch porn, a lot of porn. I know all too well what James Deen’s penis looks like and this really is the real deal.

With an insertable length of about 6 inches and the circumference at its widest point also about 6 inches, this toy isn’t for the faint of heart. It’s girthy and has a nice natural curve near the head that hits the g-spot nicely. It’s also heavy, clocking in at 1.7 pounds.

This is a stationary dildo; it has no vibrations or extra bells and whistles. It features a suction cup base for hands-free use and is also harness compatible. Since this toy has a wide enough base, it is also suitable for anal.

Material
The James Deen Realistic Cock is made from Sil-a-gel which has an ultra-realistic feel. Sil-a-gel is antibacterial, non-toxic (Phthalate free), latex-free and camium free. It’s also somewhat porous. For this reason, I recommend using a condom on the toy if you intend to share it or use it anally.

Sil-a-gel should be cleaned with mild soap and water or a toy cleaner. It should also not be stored touching other toys. I actually made this mistake before reading the instructions carefully. I set my James Deen dildo next to a purple toy and the a little bit of purple color bled onto the cock. Now it looks like James Deen has a little dick bruise! The toy comes with a cloth bag for storage, I highly suggest using it.

My Experience
Normally I don’t have a penchant for life-like looking sex toys. As long as a toy feels good, I don’t care if it’s green with purple polka dots or shaped like a tennis racket. I’ve also never used a sex toy molded after a real person before.

I was surprised to discover that fucking a “real” penis was quite a turn on for me. It helped me create a fantasy I wouldn’t have thought up otherwise. It also made the porn I watch that much more realistic. I got a kick out of not only imagining fucking James Deen but also tossing him aside afterward and not having to cuddle, listen to him snore or call him a taxi!

I’m a bit of a size queen and this filled me up very nicely. It was big enough to satisfy but stopped just short of being too big. As long as you’re not someone who normally has issue handling larger insertables, this should be suitable. Simply warm yourself up, use a generous amount of water based lube and cook up your hottest James Deen fantasy.

Despite its weight, this dildo stood up nicely to gravity. The suction cup is quite strong and it had no problem staying adhered to a vertical wall for a lengthy session. I’m also a fan of strap-on sex so being harness compatible is a wonderful bonus.

The Final Word
Overall, I really liked the James Deen Realistic Cock. I never really understood the appeal of a toy that is a replica of a real person before this. Much to my surprise, it’s a nice addition to the fantasy that goes along with sex play.

Alone I can have my way with James Deen. Wearing it as a strap-on I have the most sought after penis in the entertainment industry. Partnered, I can be the star of my very own hard-core DP scene with James Deen and my most trusted lover. I can even make James Deen a part of a cuckold scenario by making my lover watch me enjoy taking it all. Hmmmm, I wonder what else I can do with Fake James Deen? The sky’s the limit!

The James Deen Realistic Cock is one of many exciting sex toys available at up to 50% off on our Masturbation Month Sale. Check it out now!

Ducky DooLittle Video Review: Stockroom Leather Thigh Cuffs

In this video I review these luscious leather thigh cuffs. With three sizes to choose from and adjustable slots within those sizes, you are sure to get a great fit. And the thickness of the leather straps hold tight and look oh-so-sexy wrapped around your thighs.

I also show you these little locks and snap hooks as a means of securing your thigh cuffs.

And finally I deliver a few notes on how to love your leather. If you are a leather lover like me, you should check out this all-in-one leather cleaner and conditioner. And this book is the bomb if you want more information on how to care for fetish gear.

Stockroom Staff Picks Week 2: Our Personal BDSM Gear, Fetish Gear & Sex Toy Favorites

Stockroom.com Employee Favorites

Last week’s employees’ favorite sex toys and BDSM gear were so much fun, we’ve got a whole new list of hot staff picks just for you! These picks run the gamut of great items, from punishing slappers and crops, to necessities like kegel balls and condoms, to restrictive bondage restraints! See why we love our favorites, then find something to satisfy all your needs and save 20% when you use promo code “FAVES” at checkout!

AnaRibald Representative of Retail Sales

Being one of our finest retail store clerks, Ana is excellent at providing customers with knowledgeable insight on a variety of the toys and gear The Stockroom offers.

Hog Slapper CropHog Slapper Crop

This was the first crop I ever bought when I first was inclined to explore my kinky side, so it holds a sentimental value for both my body and soul’s excitement. The slapper makes this fantastic noise as it slaps down on flesh, and it’s wide enough to still sting but also thump which is the best of both worlds for me! I’ve had it implemented on me in various ways and it’s never been a disappointment. In between thighs, light clitoral slapping, and of course the butt are my preferred uses for this crop!
 

 

 

 

V-Global Kegal BallsV-Global Kegal Balls

If there was some sort of vogue equivalent for vaginas this would be a must have for every women’s collection! Let’s face it ladies we all could do our kegel exercise on our own laying on our beds but believe me this route is much easier and shows your body quicker results. I don’t have to remember that these are in – I KNOW it! And after the first few days, I could already tell a difference in muscle strength. The great thing about this package in particular is that it comes with the three gradual weights differentiated from the lightest shade of grey to the darkest shade of grey. This makes it easy and convenient to transition to the next step when your pretty pink lips are ready to clasp down onto the next one. I wear the single ball since the duo is too big for me and I just change out the weights when my body is ready. Plus I could slip them in anywhere and anytime because it doesn’t feel like an exercise at all! I even have worn it in while a wild night out dancing! Since it’s a silicone shaped ball with a small metal marble sized ball inside you could feel it bounce inside of you almost like a mix between having some fun and being responsible. Making it tight has never been so awesome!
 

 

 

 

Premium Leather Cuffs w/ Locking BucklePremium Leather Cuffs w/ Locking Buckle

These are aesthetic and practical. I’m not a very effeminate girl so I lean towards the primal looks for bondage gear. With that being said these cuffs fit comfortable but not too comfortable and the thick leather makes any bound enthusiast feel constricted and therefore happy! Also the combination of a triangle and O ring make a great extension for any kind of scene one might have in mind.
 

 

 

 

DanielComely Count of Customer Service

Daniel is a customer service veteran and when he’s not acting as master of the call center, he finds he prefers the company of felines, vintage synths, bad Star Wars novels.

Sex and Metal Flogger Sex and Metal Flogger “The Provoker”

This cool looking whip has all the details that make it one of my favorite implements at a very low price! The soft luxurious falls feel great and can create everything from a warning to a full-on punishment. The solid utilitarian handle with 2 small spikes near the falls make for a nice hint of edginess and I love the way the metal warms against my hand.
 

 

 

 

Venetian Bird MaskVenetian Bird Mask

I love the severity of this handmade mask as well as its menacing shape. The history of the mask only adds unnerving undertones to what’s sure to cause intrigue at your next party. Its design dates back to medieval Italy, where doctors treating plague victims would wear long-beaked masks stuffed with herbs and tinctures they thought would protect them from the affliction of their patients.
 

 

 

 

ONE Pleasure CondomsONE Pleasure Condoms

Customers are always asking me for condom advice and this is my first pick every time. A condom with the wearer’s pleasure is really rare so when I read the raving reviews I knew I had to give them a try.
 

 

 

 

LaylaWinning Wunderkind of Wholesale

Layla is the Stockroom Wholesale Director and Manager, travelling around the world sharing safe, sane, and consensual BDSM gear, toys, and tips with vanilla and kinky professionals alike!

Latex Bolero StraightjacketLatex Bolero Straitjacket

So convenient, so sexy. The Latex Bolero Straitjacket keeps the sub’s arms completely restrained while leaving their breasts totally exposed to tickle, tease, freeze, or use clamps on like my personal fave, the Mandibles. Also, the chest harness rocks. It frames the breasts beautifully, features a couple of attachment points and even better, provides support for the arms when they are wrapped around the body. That extra arm support ensures comfort and makes them feel like they are giving themselves a big warm hug! Lastly, the cropped design means that it is quick to get in to and quick to get out of, no wasting any time to get to the fun stuff!
 

 

 

 

Power TripperPower Tripper™

I LOVE this toy. The Power Tripper, a body contact accessory for the Neon Wand, turns me or my partner into the conductor, and the many options I have when playing with it excite me to no end. When I have the power on low, it feels like a light tremble, but when I turn it up or add metal toys, it gives an attention getting zap. Also, giving or receiving electric kisses all over the body is a sensation like no other. In fact, I would say addictive and unforgettable. Or, share the love and daisy chain it to create a 3 way, 4 way, or even more.
 

 

 

 

MeghanMaleficent Maven of Marketing

Meghan is the resident social media vixen, spending most of her time stomping away in the web world. She enjoys clowns, uniform role play, horror movies, and testing her willpower to never read the Youtube comments section.

Wartenberg PinwheelWartenberg Pinwheel

I am a total sucker for this toy and definitely think it’s one of those things that every person should keep in their drawer! It’s a perfect intro to sensation play and works well in a wide variety of ways: slow and gentle, rough scraping, used along with a blindfold, or one of my personal favorites- used to create sharp stinging sensations with the Neon Wand and Power Tripper!
 

 

 

 

Black Leather Fraternity PaddleBlack Leather Fraternity Paddle

No frills, no fancy details- just a basic and very effective paddle that gets the job done! The wide, flat area creates both a great amount of pressure and stimulation, but also a very satisfying noise as it hits skin. It’s also more flexible than wood or acrylic, but it’s just as easy to clean. It’s great for threatening love taps, or arm-swinging smacks!
 

 

 

 

Adjustable StocksAdjustable Stocks

These stocks are fantastic in their simplicity to put the wearer at an absolutely exposed and vulnerable state. Both sets of cuffs are fleece lined, which makes them super comfortable even when you may be squirming around in them. Not only is the bar length adjustable, but the wrists and ankles can be moved to the inner or outer position which makes for some fun angle options. Finally, both sets of cuffs require a lock, which makes them totally secure and the wearer totally stuck for as long as you’d like!
 

 

 

 

BiancaBodacious Belle of Boutique Sales

Bianca is a mystery stuffed inside a riddle, wrapped up in an enigma.

nJoy Pure WandnJoy Pure Wand

I love a mad scientist, and this toy has the potential for pure evil. The sleek stainless style goes perfectly with your favorite medical/torture fantasy. The smoothness of steel is like no other sensation – combined with the sheer weight of this thing, it makes for unbelievable G- and P-spot stimulation.
 

 

 

 

Spareparts Joque Dildo HarnessSpareparts Joque Dildo Harness

Leather is lovely, but I can’t help but adore the Joque. It’s a sporty harness with soft straps that make it comfy enough to wear all day under clothes, so you’ll enjoy it for packing and playing. I love that the dildo pouch can be worn open or closed at the back – you get to control what stimulation you receive as the wearer, and you also get the option of wearing double-ended toys. And it’s vegan!
 

 

 

 




*Additional restrictions may apply. Promotion cannot be combined with other discounts, sales prices, or applied to previous orders. Offer good only while supplies last. Promo code valid through May 2, 2013.

Stockroom Staff Picks: Our Personal BDSM Gear, Fetish Gear & Sex Toy Favorites

Stockroom.com Employee Favorites

Looking for new sex toys, bdsm gear or bondage restraints but want some expert opinions to make sure that you’re making the right choice? We’ve got you covered! Even outside the office, each of our expert staff enjoy as wide a range of kinky play and sexual interests as you do (or want to!), so we’re constantly using our products and testing new ones.


We asked all of our Stockroom employees, from our retail store clerks, to our purchasing department, and everyone in between, for their personal picks, and they couldn’t wait to share their favorite vibrators, bondage restraints, latex accessories and BDSM equipment and why they loved them.


Without further ado – check out the items that make us drool! But don’t just take our words for it: Try them (and the rest of our top quality gear and toys) for yourself at 20% off for a limited time with promo code FAVES at checkout!*

BrendanDark Prince of Marketing

Brendan has been in Stockroom’s Marketing Department for over 3 years. He loves predicament bondage and role playing. He also loves enforcing discipline for bad word play.

Rubber Wrist CuffsRubber Wrist Cuffs

I’m not all that keen on using leather gear, so it’s nice to have some animal-friendly options. I love the feel and functionality of these simple rubber cuffs. Instead of a buckle, these cuffs secure on the wrists with locks which make for extra secure bondage scenarios and not only do they clean easily and work great with all kinds of equipment, but they’re also made of nice quality, thick rubber which makes them super sturdy!
 

 

 

 

Flex Flicker WhipFlex Flicker Whip

I love this whip for variety of reasons but I especially like that it’s perfectly versatile, as well as flexible. It’s a dressage whip, so it’s ideal for pony play, but it also packs a wallop if you use it as a cane, which makes it one of my favorite implements to use for direction OR correctional needs! The loop on the handle also provides a really good grip during sessions and also makes it easy to hang for storage
 

 

 

 

Latex Executioner Hoodie• Latex Executioner Hoodie

This latex zip-up full face hoodie is probably one of the most unique latex items I’ve seen in a while. The jacket pairs perfectly with the latex track pants and together, this ensemble is the thing we carry that I most lust after. I love the playfulness and the menace. I’m definitely grabbing this as soon as I can!
 

 

 

 

LianneLusty Liaison of Purchasing

Here for the past 5+ years, Lianne has an eye for soft and girly beginner products. As the youngest member of the company she enjoys painless, easy to use, and easy to clean items.

Minna Ola • Minna Ola

This toy is simply fantastic and I just love that it comes in pink! The squeeze-bulb control for speed and intensity, along with the pattern replay function, make this waterproof wonder my new favorite plaything! I especially like its ergonomic shape, soft silicone feel and, as if that weren’t enough, it’s fully rechargeable and can be used for 5 hours on a single charge!
 

 

 

 

Kinklab Neoprene CuffsKinklab Neoprene Cuffs

I personally like that these cuffs are not intimidating and are perfect for beginners! The neoprene lining makes them super comfortable to wear. The adjustable Velcro straps also make them very easy to use and switch between ankles or wrists but best of all, you can’t beat that you can throw these in the washer when you’re done playing.
 

 

 

 

Vibratex Dreamboat Remote Control VibratorVibratex Dreamboat Remote Control Vibrator

This 3-in-1 toy is a must have and is perfect if you’re looking for a combination of G-spot, clitoral and light anal stimulation! I just love the compact design and its easy to use remote control, which is perfect when trying to be discreet. It’s also very easy to clean and is Phthalate-free!
 

 

 

 

DonovanCunning Clerk of Retail Sales

As a retail sales associate Donovan enjoys working directly with customers, and helping them connect to the local scene.  “There is nothing quite like having gear in your hands and feeling the quality for yourself”. He is quite fond of impact toys, electrosex, and hoods. Here are some of his recent favorites.

Kinklab Bedspread Under Bed Bondage StrapsKinklab Bedspread Under Bed Bondage Straps

This thing is a go to item! The straps quickly transform any bed into a bondage play station, no worries about bed posts or tying off to bed frames, just slip it between the mattress and box springs and your ready to go. The hardware is quick and solid, and best of all the thing slips into a suitcase and is great for hotels and vacations.
 

 

 

 

Kinklab Red and Black Neon WandKinklab Neon Wand, Red and Black

Let the sparks fly! The crackle and anticipation of the jolt of electricity makes your senses come alive. Add a Power Tripper, and you have an electric touch, great for use with a Wartenberg Pinwheel, mylar flogger, or any metallic object such as a normal fork. It’s like being a super villain.
 

 

 

 

Diamondback Braided Whip• Diamondback Braided Whip

This whip is a great tool to have on hand- it has a nice weight to it that makes swings and slaps easy, but the shape let’s you give a hit without leaving too many marks or lingering stings for those that aren’t into a high level of pain. It also has an attached loop on the end that makes it easy to hang and store when you’re done playing!
 

 

 

 

GermanMerciless Master of Marketing

A 7 year veteran of the company, as well as Stockroom’s Marketing & Customer Service Manager, German has a broad knowledge of the range of gear and toys that appeal to fetish & kink enthusiasts.

Hemp RopeHemp Rope

Definitely some of the nicest hemp rope I have come across. It’s soft to the touch (even for hemp rope!) and comes in multiple widths and colors, allowing you to get creative with your rope bondage, from CBT to suspension, to everything in between, this rope is versatile and of the highest quality around. Personally, I love the look of the look of the natural color, which works well with most skin tones!
 

 

 

 

Heavy Duty Steel Wrist CuffsHeavy Duty Steel Wrist Cuffs

These are probably the most stylish set of fully functional metal wrist cuffs we carry! I especially like the hex key closure mechanism which is fast, easy to use, fully secure and requires zero locks. The high polished look is even better in person! Complete the set with the matching ankle cuffs for an extra special slave aesthetic visual.
 

 

 

 

Vac-U-Lock Knuckle Up Dildo Harness• Vac-U-Lock Knuckle Up Dildo Harness

This is one pretty cool toy accessory! Incorporating it into a rope bondage scene definitely makes for a uniquely pleasurable experience on both ends. One of the great things is the ability to use any Vac-U-Lock accessory such as the Vac-U-Lock Thin Natural Dong or the Vac-U-Lock Pink Jelly Probe
 

 

 

 

EddieRigorous Retail Overseer

Aside from being Stockroom’s retail store manager for the past 4 years, Eddie is also a prolific player in the LA leather community, as well as a former title holder. He has been a member of The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence for the past 11 years and goes by the name of ‘Sister Erotica Psychotica, the Avant Guardian of the Nasty Habit’

Rubber ApronRubber Apron

We make two versions of this hot piece of fetish wear. I love both, but prefer the one with the cockhole and pocket for extra quick and easy access! The apron looks great with pretty much any ensemble from a full fetish outfit to a simple jeans and t-shirt look, but I’m a pretty big fan of the way it looks with absolutely nothing else but a pair of boots!
 

 

 

 

Spandex Hood with Blindfold and Mouth HoleSpandex Hood w/ Blindfold and Mouth Hole

Sensory deprivation can be super hot. Cut off one sense and the rest are heightened. That’s one of the many reasons I love this hood. It covers everything but your mouth for easy-access and lots of possibilities and the soft, stretchy material actually makes it really comfortable to wear.
 

 

 

 

Pig Sling with Stirrups • Pig Sling with Stirrups

This sling is simply amazing and perfect for finding lots of fun positions and experimenting with angles. I like the fact that it’s made of a flexible and super easy-to-clean material, which means you don’t have to worry about making a mess while having fun- it just wipes clean and rolls up for easy storage when you’re done! The D-rings points also make it easy for you to attach chains and hook it up to a sling stand, bed frame or to a ceiling system if you’re a heavy player!
 

 

 

 

AlyssaDominating Diva of Purchasing

Although Alyssa, a 6+ year veteran of Stockroom, currently works in Purchasing, her earlier work in the latex department helped in the beginnings of her lifelong love for latex, which she wears as often as possible. She’s a fan of high-quality lifestyle toys and is hands-on in the choosing of many of the products Stockroom sells today!

Opera Length Latex Gloves • Opera Length Latex Gloves

I love latex, and I love this combination of formal and fetish attire! These gloves fit every evening I can imagine, whether it’s a fancy party or a medical fetish scene! They give you the option to dress up for public, while still indulging in your kinky ways.

 

 

 

 

Double Ratchet Dental RetractorDouble Ratchet Dental Retractor

I really enjoy this fantastic piece of gear because it looks like something out of an early 20th century medical scene, which makes it perfect for playing evil doctor or just menacing your sub with! The attractive stainless steel design makes it one of my favorite toys in my medical collection. Not only do I love using it on others, but it also looks great just sitting on my display shelf, in a stylish and threatening manner.
 

 

 

 

Ultimate AsslockUltimate Asslock

I consider this to be one of those really special pieces equipment that is fully functional and will keep any sub in line, even when used as a simple threat! The medieval steel design is really cool looking and is unlike any other chastity device I have come across. I especially like that it can be locked in place and has a prominent stem that makes sitting nearly impossible, which tells you it’s really made for extremes- and is one of the reasons I absolutely love this piece!
 

 

 

 




Check out more of our staff picks for even more recommended BDSM gear and sex toys!



*Additional restrictions may apply. Promotion cannot be combined with other discounts, sales prices, or applied to previous orders. Offer good only while supplies last. Promo code valid through May 2, 2013.

Buxom & Beautiful: Fetish Wear for Plush Girls

I step out of the dark, hot nightclub into the cold air of New York City. My latex dress reflects the streetlights. I feel sexy. I’m hot and my body is wet with sweat from the dance floor, but I throw my wrap around me. The temperature of this material changes with my environment and chills quickly. I can hardly wait to get home so my lover can heat it up again.

The dress itself is almost a sexual experience. With the nature of the material, it’s difficult to get in and out of it alone, forcing you to invite someone to assist you in dressing and undressing. Once it’s on, they can buff your body to a gleaming shine.

Latex is giving yet snug. It stretches, and the amount of stretch is dependent on how thick the material may be. You’ll look like you have been dipped in a candy coating, your curves accentuated. It’s like a second, more flawless skin. It’s beautiful. Leather wear on the other hand gets better with time, changing the shape of the garment to fit you, as they say, like a glove.

That’s what I love about fetish wear, whatever your sexual inclinations are, dressing can bring them out. What you wear can be used as an expression of your desires. Changing your attire can mean changing your mindset.

Don’t be shy to dress. There is no human body that is perfect. Learn to love what you are. Look at me, I’m buxom. I dress this body so that I feel as sexy as I am. It works. So to my curvy femmes out there, here are some tips.

 

The dress I wore that night was the short and daring Swing Dress in black. It leaves plenty of room for my hips and bust. It is perfect for wearing with a corset under or over the dress. You’ll have a real hourglass shape while you billow out the top.

Some other dresses I lust after? This dress and this dress. Both have that circle skirt design that I love. And this zipper dress also has a world of possibilities because you can unzip the bust and hips to make adjustments for luscious curves.

I love to wear my dresses short, so there is just the possibility of a sneak peek up my skirt. It also makes my legs look longer. This means wearing cute panties, just in case there is a photo op! These lace-up panties and these frilly panties fit the bill, depending upon what kind of mood you might be in.

I wear my stocking high on my thighs so they don’t cut into the meat on my thighs. I love these fishnets with no elastic at the top. Wear a little petticoat under a flared dress for more dramatic hip curves.

A quick way to bring fetish fair to a classic black look, I have recently taken a liking to arm gauntlets in rubber, leather or lace-up styles. You might consider adding a dramatic leather collar to an opera dress. These little tricks will have you ready to storm any fetish party with style.

One of the many things that makes me love Stockroom is they stock larger sizes (for people of every gender) when available. It means those of us with hips, thighs, ass and tits can find the quality we deserve.

Electro Sex: Tingling to Intense Sensation, for New to Advanced Players

I’m kinky, for sure. But when I was asked to explore the KinkLab Neon Wand® Electrosex Kit I was intimidated.

This is a toy that creates an electrical discharge across the surface of the skin and it is visually stunning. It plays with your senses. When you turn it on, the glass attachments (also called electrodes) glow violet or red. Watching the electricity dance inside the glass tubes and on the skin is totally mesmerizing.  Turn the lights down low and the glow is more intense. It is a beautiful way to amplify your lover’s anticipation, be it fear or excitement.

The wand itself is plastic and comes neatly packed in a case. Each glass attachment sits safely in its own foam compartment. I love the little user manual that comes with it. The manual clearly outlines safety, care and play. All you have to do is pick the attachment of your choice, pop it in the end of the wand, plug the wand in, turn it on and you are ready to play. So simple.

The static electric sensations it delivers can go from subtle, warm and tingly, to focus, intense and even painful. You control how much sensation you want to deliver. There are a couple of reasons why the sensations can vary so greatly. First you have a setting dial on the wand itself. Second, the attachment you choose will also have an impact on the intensity.

The larger the attachment, the less sensation it gives because the electricity is spread out over the surface of the skin. So the comb shaped electrode delivers the least amount of sensation, while the 90° Probe is the most intense because the pointed tip delivers all the focus to one pin-pointed spot. The kit comes with four electrodes to choose from. There are three more electrodes sold separately.

You can play with the dial, attachments, how close you are to your partner’s skin and see for yourself. You can also amp the sensation up even more by applying massage oil or lotion to the skin.

Take it all a few steps further by adding the Power Tripper to your kit. Pop the end of the Power Tripper into your wand, tuck the metal disk into your bra, panties, boot or wherever it can sit flush to your skin, and then you become the conductor of sensation. Use your fingertips, your tongue or nipples to create sparks between you and your lover. Hold a metal toy (like a Wartenberg Pinwheel) in your hands and it becomes your conductor. The possibilities are endless.

I love the variable settings, it’s light weight in my hands and when compared to comparable items, it feel less fragile. In terms of hygiene, you never have to touch the other person’s skin, or if you do touch skin you can swab it down with 75% alcohol. After a little research, an easy user manual, and a very willing guinea pig to explore with- I am a total convert!

Pair it with some restraints or a blindfold and watch your lover squirm with the sensations.


 

My First Ball Gag

It changed my entire relationship with sex.

It may sound outlandish, but it’s true. I had plenty of kink inspired thoughts and play, but a gag? It had never even entered my sexual imagination. Until one day he sent me a text that simply read, “Buy a gag.” He gave me no other instructions.

I poured over this very website and explored the possibilities. Ball gags, bit gags, ring gags… where to start?

I remember a conversation with a friend, she told me she bought a cheap gag in a sex shop and the ball was made of some kind of plastic that smelled horrible and tasted worse. This is why I came to Stockroom, I could trust that they knew more about quality kink products than I did.

Many of the gags come in various sizes, I decided something smaller would be easier for me to wear, and because he gave me no instructions, I took the easy way out! Finally, I picked leather over rubber straps as I am attracted to the scent and knew I would wear this on my face. I choose a simple black leather ball gag.

KinkLab's Pink Rubber Ball Gag is perfect for classic bondage scenes

I emailed him when the package arrived. He instructed me to carry my new gag, still sealed in the package, in my purse. And I did. For weeks. It went with me everywhere, just as he instructed. If we met for drinks he would ask me if I had it with me, but for weeks he did not ask to see it or use it. But I knew he might pop up at any time and ask for it. I did not want to disappoint him.

More time passed. Finally I went to him and asked, “When will we use this gag?”

He had done it. He had embedded the object deeply into my imagination. Now I was asking for it. That’s what he was waiting for.

The first time he buckled it onto me, it felt like a gift. It was more comfortable than I imagined. I was enamored with the sound of the buckle. He spun me around and looked into my eyes and there was this electricity. Here I was deprived of my voice but other expressions took its place. Eye contact, body language, and uncontrollably, saliva began to pool in my mouth and drop from my lips in long strings. My lust, it was undeniable.

So how did my ball gag change my relationship with sex? From that day on I have learned to keep my mind open. I feel like there must be a million other things that have not reached my sexual imagination but may light me up in new ways. I don’t need to have a fetish for the object itself, but stay open to the experience it may create with another.

Throughout National Kink Month, we’re having weekly sales on Stockroom.com: this week we’re featuring some of our favorite bondage restraints and gear. All month long we’ll be showcasing tricks, tips and lessons for using the fetish toys and BDSM gear on sale that week.